HOW DO I FIND MY SOULMATE?

If i even have one. I just want to find my soulmate so bad its pitiful. I can manage spending my life alone but i dont want to be alone. Neither do i want to end up settling for a guy who isnt the guy i was destined to spend my life with. I REFUSE! I was just wondering how do i find my soulmate. Pray if you will i really want to find him even if all I get is a chance to gaze into his eyes. I just want to find him and know who he is and spend my life with him.